8 Tips To Help You Deal With Conflict Better

How do you deal with conflict? Are you a person who holds onto everything or do you let your anger out?

Conflict affects our attitude, which impacts our ability to be productive. Conflict is destructive if not positively handled. It damages peace and orderliness within us as relationships are broken. Our ability to trust people is hindered, and we pull away rather than build relationships.

C = closed-minded
O = opinionated
N = negative attitude
F = frequent frustrations
L = low self-esteem
I = ignorance
C = creates hostile work environment
T = temperamental

Now is the time to resolve conflicts or any long-time resentment. Conflict actually can be good if we use positive energy and strategies to deal with it. Here are a few quick ideas:

1. Listen carefully in order to understand the other person’s point of view.
2. Solicit ideas from the other person. Ask, “How do you see us working better together?”
3. Be clear on the real issue of conflict. Make sure it isn’t your perception.
4. Stick to the facts when confronting someone.
5. Acknowledge the other person’s good points.
6. Maintain the other person’s self-esteem.
7. Make every effort to approach the other person directly.
8. Be open and honest; don’t hint.



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2 thoughts on “8 Tips To Help You Deal With Conflict Better”

  1. Conflict resolutions leads to accomplished goals, enhances commitment, improves productivity, allows constructive change, leads to resolution and it gives new insight. Conflict actually can be good if we use positive energy and straties to deal with it. Below are a few quick tips for dealing with conflict.

    Bringing the meeting guidelines and ground rules are basic tools for a successful resolution.

  2. I have learned that holding on is not good for anyone. It hinders growth and progress – both professionally and personally. The suggestions are good! Thank you for those. Listening without thinking of a response is THE hardest thing – but we can do it!!

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